Friday, February 29, 2008

Mom oh Mom

I really am grateful receiving this from a good friend...neeza.
Thanks...
I am not that good as a mom...and my blog is not that entertaining.... anyway thanks dear...

Yup..I'm a mom... a not-that-great mom. I am proud being a mom...
As we are in this topic... I would like to share some story, and views...

When I was in medical school...if people ask..when do u want to get married?...I don't answer... I was a bit insecure...the ugly ol' me...I don't think anyone would fall for me...hence marrying me... I was a bit sceptical..
But deep down..well..i think the best age should be before i turn 25 (shhh...I just kept this thought to myself ok..at that time).
And I hope that I have my first child by the age of 25, and another after 3 years, and another the next 3 years. Anyway, that's just a thought... I never thought that it ever will become a reality. Yeah..me at that time is not that feminine...rarely wear my 'baju kurung'... never ever thinking of having a relationship..so on and so forth....
But God's will...when I was 21...my Mr AB came into my life... he proposed... and my father gave him a condition..wait until I finish my study.
So...we got married when I was 24 (got that wish right- get marry before 25)
Pregnant with Umar a month later...and he was born on March 2002 (first child when I was 25)
Laiqa was born exactly 3 years later (the spacing was right too...a child after 3years)
And now...pregnant again and Laiqa will get another sibling when she's 3.

I'm enjoying my life as a mom very much. I teach them at home. I even thinking of home-schooling them, but have to put it off, since afraid that they won't know how to interact with people if they keep staying at home.
When they were babies, yup...I successfully breastfed them, exclusively.
I cook for them as often as I can.

And I really, truly enjoying everything about them...
Yup...I get mad...many times, especially with Umar naughtiness and Laiqa's stuborness...but my love for them have never lessen...the love gets more and more each day....

But a bit to be disappoint with them is that, whenever people ask...who's daughter/son u r? They will answer, 'papa's daughter/son'. You know what...the 'mama' is the one who have been taking care of them each day...and they still be the daddy's kid.
Anyway...I know, whenever they are having difficulties....it's mama who they turn too. If they have nightmares, they will call out to mama....If they fall down, it's mama who first come to aid... If they have any enquiries, they ask mama...
But, why, oh, why, the 'papa' always get the popular vote...:):)

Anyway AB, I don't mind. Because u too have done a great job with them...


Last note...i want to forward this TOP MOM BLOG to the lovely and sure is a great mom with a great blog---- Cat Cat

29 comments:

idham said...

TAHNIAH DR NO.....well deserved tu :-)
"tenguklah pada anak2nya untuk menilai kebaikan ibunya" - pujangga dari dubai.
hehehe

"tenguklah keceriaan suaminya - untuk menilai layanan isterinya" lagi satu.

Ermmm....bila la nak dapat award nie.......hehehe!

Idham

Cat Cat said...

drNO, you still young and pretty - and I'm happy for your third child coming soon... Both your children are a cutie pie... A very happy family indeed!

silversarina said...

Tahniah drNO !!!

Teruskan berkorban demi suami dan anak-anak.

Nak celah sikit ye... kenapa lah tak bagi award tu kat pakpain dubai tu..sian dia tau.. dia mommy ke ha...hehehe.

drNO said...

Mr Id@ pak payne- ni sah x baca entry yg lps2....i've awarded u with the 'Friendly Site Award'...bila nk claim ni...
nk bg yg ni...u'r not a mom la pulak...hhhehehehehe



CatCat- we have our ups and downs...
anyway thanks for the compliment...

drNO said...

silversarina- thanks...what else a mother should do...love devoting my life for the family..
itula...kemaruk award kan pakpayne tu..hehhehe....

Neeza Shahril said...

You really deserve it mama! after reading this entry, I got to know 1 thing. You're younger by 2 years than me! heheheeee... tapi, tak yah panggil kak neeza la ye..heheeee.. coz I've used to the 'neeza' already instead of kak neeza.. heheheee..

Akicage said...

Attention!

pat said...

HEhehe...Tesentuh jiwa membaca cerita kak No :)

Anak kak No baik.Kalau anak Pat yg tua tu,asyik komplen memanjang,cakap mummy tak bagi makan lah (padahal selama ni makanan ada,dia sibuk tgk tv),tak beli mainan lah,tak nak beli itu ini..

flush said...

welcome back docno..

booGie said...

Papanya jarang marah kut.

Jumpa sekali sekala budak2 tu manja ngan dia.

Biasa lah tu :)

13may said...

Tahniah akak!

ms hart said...

Salam Doc! First time here.Hmm...we are in the same boat!! In fact I wrote about this too somewhere last week. Kita serupaaaa....(lagu Headwind tu..) Nak buat macam mana, pilihan di tangan 'pengundi'?!! ha ha ha

Dr Ezura said...

keep up the good work,drNo...a mother is always the best for her children....

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Naughty Babe said...

hey mama...

;p

Kazilar said...

See here or here

Monstermom said...

My friends will always say that my kids takes the father's face...
Penat I ngandung n lahirkan, sorang pun tak ikut muka i...
Janji ikut perangai I yg comel ni.. cukupla

flush said...

dah dkt sebulan tak update ni doc..

HLiza said...

pi mana?

intankamaruddin said...

May Allah's bless be with you always Dr No.. I pun nk mcm you la.. Kawen before 25, hv kids n cook for them evyday.. If u can do it y not me. Thanks this is inspiring :-)

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isleasy said...

drNo..kemane menghilang..

HLiza said...

Hello hello..calling over..

Akinol said...

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flush said...

almost 2 months..

Anonymous said...

Salam :) That's nice. But marrying a foreigner is more... walking with the child & if he's as blonde as his dad - people think you're the maid! :R

HLiza said...

DrNo, tahniah for the baby boy! Wish I can see more of him individually or here in your blog..